Dear Jack,
I feel like I have a hole in my heart ever since my boy died. What do I do about it? How do I fix it?
The “hole” you feel in your heart is the result of the love you have for him – a love that has further expanded your capacity for love. It is not a hole at all. It just feels like a hole because what remains is expanded space. It’s like wearing a hat that’s too small but over time it stretches and grows to fit your head. This is what we have given you. Your heart is larger now and will be a vessel to hold even more love when all is said and done. It’s designed to hold an infinite amount. As life expands, you grow in your wisdom and experience to fill it.
It’s another gift we give to you. Our Master never takes something away without filling the space it left behind. It is our greatest hope that you will feel so empty that you will be aware of the need to fill the space up with love again. Your boy will choreograph the right love to come to you at the right time. You will surprise yourself; your heart will be so filled with love for another and if you can keep the guilt at bay, you will make him very happy because you will love again and use all that he taught you when you were together to love even better this time.
Love, Jack
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