Dear Jack,
I know 'friends' can't understand that I'm not over it yet, but I'm not sure I ever will be. I've tried animal communicators to hear from him but the evidence just hasn't fitted. It scares me that he hates me for what happened.
Your boy lives with us on the other side of Rainbow Bridge. There is only love here. There is no hate, no chaos, no suffering, no guilt, no blame, no shame. In fact, when we lived with you on the earth, we did not/could not understand why humans choose to experience these things. Even on earth we are only LOVE. Understanding. Acceptance.
That said, you must know that he does not hate you. He cannot. He only loves. He loves you the most. Your healing will help you to realize this. It is your grief process that leads your mind to believe these dark thoughts. It is all an illusion. We will help you to see the truth. We are rooting for you here because when you are happy, your boy will be happy again too. Sending loads of love from Rainbow Bridge.
Love, Jack
Credits:
This was an actual letter that Kate wrote in her diary two days after I crossed the Rainbow Bridge:
About this letter
This letter is part of Jack McAfghan: Letters From Rainbow Bridge. A reader writes that they are not over their loss and may never be, that animal communicators have not given them the evidence they hoped for, and that they fear their pet blames them for what happened. Jack replies that there is only love on the other side, with no blame, guilt or shame.
What Jack says about guilt
Jack tells the reader that their pet does not hate them and cannot, because pets only love. He suggests that dark thoughts come from the grief process and calls them an illusion that healing will help to dissolve. The message ends with encouragement: when you are happy, your pet is happy too.
If you are afraid your pet blamed you
Guilt is one of the most common parts of pet loss, especially when a difficult decision was involved. Talking it through with a counselor, a pet loss support group or your veterinarian can help you see the choices you made with the information you had at the time. You are not alone in feeling this way.
